Written by Olutoye Esther
Humans come in various shapes and sizes, from size 6 to 16 and beyond. We are all unique and beautiful. Many people are unaware that they project their own feelings of inferiority onto others, or even onto themselves. This shouldn’t be so, if only they knew how special and unique, they are with that petite shape, how confident they should be with that thick body, or how lucky they should count themselves for not looking their age. I am not suggesting that having a different body type makes you less beautiful. Everyone deserves to feel beautiful.
There is a need to recognize that our body type makes us unique, and that adds up to our identity, which eventually becomes a choice. What then, are the actual decisions you make? Are you pursuing happiness only by means of a rushed and potentially risky liposuction procedure? Meanwhile, your reality is working out in a poorly equipped gym where you can only make lemonades with the lemons available.
Although, certain jobs or careers may prioritize certain body types, striving for inclusivity may seem daunting. However, if it is your desire, persistence is key. Fortunately, the world is progressing towards body positivity and inclusivity, with many brands now catering to all body types.
Above all, prioritizing one’s health is the safest life choice one could make. Especially those who aren’t plus-size, who may carry the notion that remaining super petite simultaneously excuses them from exercising and staying fit. Being healthy and exercising regularly apply to every human body, regardless of shape or size.
Finally, always remember that your body type isn’t holding you back from becoming what you want to become; instead, it is your set mindset.
~ In the words of Michelle Obama, always keep in mind that we’re all still becoming.
