Written by Olutoye Esther
First of all, what is a relationship, and what makes a relationship? Today, the term relationship is thrown around to qualify any form of human interaction. Meanwhile, relationships hold a deeper connection between people. There is an agreement that occurs between two individuals, which is often unspoken but understood.
To effectively navigate relationships with multiple individuals, it is imperative to carefully manage and fully comprehend the importance of each individual. Some relationships serve specific purposes, such as those in business or the workplace. Others encompass a broader range, such as best friends, sisters, or lovers. It is our responsibility to navigate each relationship appropriately within its boundaries. Respect people’s boundaries to create a safe space for everyone.
As said earlier, genuine relationships are meant to be explicitly acknowledged. This underlying process is known as communication. One doesn’t claim to have a lover or husband without clearly stating it from the onset. Effective communication is a non-negotiable aspect that is vital to uphold in any relationship. A lack of clarity and transparency can ultimately lead to misunderstandings and disagreements, which can be detrimental to the longevity of the relationship. Therefore, prioritizing and maintaining clear communication from the beginning is imperative for any successful relationship. Effective communication is a non-negotiable aspect that is vital to uphold in any relationship. A lack of clarity and transparency can ultimately lead to misunderstandings and disagreements, which can be detrimental to the longevity of the relationship. Therefore, prioritizing and maintaining clear communication from the beginning is imperative for any successful relationship.
Also, showing appreciation goes a long way towards forming and maintaining a relationship. Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you do something for a stranger and expect just a simple thank you from the person? Being appreciative goes a long way in creating a good memory of ourselves, and if it turns out to be the opposite, the memory of such a person’s attitude would be the first thing one always remembers about them. As we can see, from here alone, one’s notion of a person is conceived and presumed through being appreciative. Therefore, showing appreciation for the little and big things makes each party feel worthy of their relationship and valued.
Creating an efficient relationship involves being prepared to resolve conflicts. Holding onto grudges not only damages your soul but also destroys relationships. If a relationship does not benefit you in any way, it is best to find a way out and leave in a timely manner.
